Warning signs of a breakup often slip by unnoticed when we are just not looking for them. This often means complete shock by one partner when the other tries to end the relationship. The list that follows details the top 9 signs that a relationship is in trouble. This article also suggests what you can do about it.
So what are the top 9 warning signs of a breakup that your partner may be signalling by their behaviour? Heres the list:
1. Has your partner started working strange hours that are completely out of character and you cannot reasonably justify?
2. Is there a change in the way the do things for you? have the become forgetful of the things they had promised to do or of keeping arrangements they had made with you?
3. For some reason have they missed your birthday, an anniversary or a day that was previously special to you both?Is this out of character compared with how they usually are?
4. Is it difficult to have a deep or meaningful conversation with your partner lately. Do they seem continually distracted, sulky or even uncommunicative?
5. (Also one of the most telling warning signs of a break up ) Have the levels of affection and openness in how they show affection changed? Are you getting less hugs and kisses? Have they stopped holding your hand in public?
6. Do you feel your partner shows no interest in you personally and what is happening in your life?
7. Have you detected lies and untruths in your relationship, especially over little things that would not have been an issue before? Do you still trust your partner?
8. Has your partner started hiding emails and text messages. Do they act secretive when they get a phone call around you?
9. Has the level of disagreement between you increased so that you find you are arguing more and more and agreeing on things less and less?
Most of these changes by themselves may not always indicate a problem, however if three or more of these indicators are present you really need to consider what to do about saving your relationship. How do you respond when your partner is already acting like this?
If you have decided that your relationship is worth saving, the answer is there is absolutely an incredible amount of action you can take to stop a break up. The very best advice about this comes from the incredibly successful relationship mending program known as the Magic of Making Up.
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