No doubt you’ve been experiencing a tough time since your breakup. You probably don’t act or even feel like your old self. It can frequently seem as though life has lost it’s meaning. Every waking though revolves around getting your ex back.
Getting your ex back after a breakup can be done, but it must be done right. It’s usually easier to fix problems while you are still together - so if you are - try to work it out now, rather than later.
Having said that, it is still possible to get your ex back even after a breakup. But, before you launch into your campaign to get your ex back, make sure you are doing it for the right reasons. Make sure you aren’t doing it just because you are in the habit of being with them.
The first step - and this is vital - is to get control of your emotions. Guys don’t want clingy, weepy women and vice versa. Attempting to make contact before you regain emotional stability, can damage your chances at reconciliation. For example, if they were just starting to miss you and you “drunk dial” them after a night of drinking, sobbing and begging (or threatening) them to come back, they may start thinking the breakup was a good idea.
The best thing you can do is instead of worrying about what they’re doing, or feel sad that you aren’t with them, is to start living your own life. You must prove to them that you can be mature about this breakup. Keep up with your daily routines. Keep up with your grooming - wear clothes that make you feel good about yourself. Hang out with your friends.
If you’re staying active and living your life without bothering them, you will have a better chance to get them back. Counterintuitive, but true. If you stay out of contact with them, no calls, no email, no text messages, nothing, you’ll probably find that they will eventually call you, or get in touch with you.
Keep any meetings with them short. Don’t start getting emotional and expressing your feelings now! You could even be somewhat aloof. It’s not what they were expecting and could throw them off. Make sure you look your best when you meet with them, not like you’ve been sitting around pining away. No physicality at this point - stay away from hugs and kisses! People want what they can’t have and if you are a little standoffish, it will help spark their desire for you. As a first move, you are well along the road to getting your ex back. Take it slow and easy, don’t be tempted to rush it.
From here, the next steps are a little more delicate and must be done right. See the link in my signature file for more information.
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