Those who are adept in attracting women will all agree that one woman is much different than the next. This makes first breaking into the world of dating women a lot harder than it should be. But with practice and the help of a few guidelines, dating a woman and receiving subsequent dates thereafter isn’t so tough.
Initiating conversation is how the spark starts, as this shows the guy is genuinely interested in what a woman has to say. Asking a woman of her past or what she plans to do in the future are always good topics, but do try avoid past relationship stories or any clues that a past might not have been very positive. To help speed conversation along, consider taking a date to a friends house for a small party or going out on a group date so there is no absense in conversation.
It’s always a good idea to never speak of a relationship with a woman until she brings the subject up. Even when women are not sure if they like a man or not, they will often be drawn aback from any sense of attachment or dependency that is exhibited. Instead, feel confident and laid back and try to take things one day at a time. Over planning is usually what kills an otherwise budding relationship.
A boring man is the worst date for a woman, so emphasis should be put on seeming friendly and outgoing. Friends usually help out in this situation. If you have a good amount of friends, flaunt them to prove that you are well liked and fun to be around. If you are lacking in the friends category, try doing something spontaneous and exciting such as rock climbin or going to a concert.
Sometimes it isn’t what a guy does well, but what he doesn’t do that is annoying to a woman. Try not to appear too self-centered or self-conscious. Women don’t often seek long-term relationships with someone who is more interested in talking about their own self rather than other things. Even when a guy has to talk about himself, he may relate the experience with something a woman has said to prove he was listening, or even ask for her input on the story.
The best relationship advice is going to come from yourself- through experience with different personalities women hold. Dating a new woman is almost like rewriting the entire book of rules, so get out there and offer a fun date to anyone who is willing. After a few dates, guys should start to feel more confident in saying the right things and pleasing a woman’s expectations.
In Conclusion
If more help is needed to get the first few dates, perhaps because one is shy or not confident enough, try reading some online material or buying books on the subject. Some even go as far as to hiring personal trainers, although this may be more expensive.
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